I have been spending some time clearing up some long pending items on my
to do list. I was able to tick off one item over the last few days – respond to the
recommendation requests I've received on LinkedIn over the past two years.
The reason that this has been on the to-do list for a while is not because I have
received lots of requests (the number is in single digits); it was because I was
against this idea for quite some time for a number of reasons. Firstly, a lot of the
recommendations were filled with hyperbole and therefore writing in my usual
(bland, though I would prefer to call it 'under-stated') style would make the person
look quite ordinary; secondly, many of the recommendations seemed to be cases
of “i'll scratch your back if you scratch mine” with two people writing glowing
recommendations for each other; lastly, not writing any recommendations gave me
a convenient excuse to avoid writing recommendations for people I may not be too
keen to recommend (i.e. “as a matter of policy, I don't write LinkedIn
recommendations”).
On thinking some more, I began to feel that maybe the above reasons though
somewhat valid, were also excuses. Maybe the real reasons were my aversion
towards expressing opinions in public and good old-fashioned laziness; also I am
certain that there are good things that can be said about anyone (though it may
require more effort in some cases :-)). On a selfish note, I think that a well-written,
thoughtful recommendation reflects well on the writer. Lastly, it would be quite rich on
my part to publish recommendations that I receive while declining to write them for
others.
Another item on my to-do list is to write a blog post at least once a week. I hope I
am able to do this over the next few weeks; if I can post at least twelve times before
the end of the year, this task too can be considered done.
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